Friday, 23 October 2015

"Beta! shaadi kab kar rahe ho?!" ;) :/

How difficult it is to answer this question.. "Beta! shaadi kab kar rahe ho?!" 

It started with a simple discussion where me and a dear one of mine, were preparing a list of what all we would do when we meet the next time.. Simple little things.. Dinner, movie etc.. Then we thought that we might be meeting within strict timelines, so why not prioritize.. And that was the test.. It was so difficult!!

But then I questioned myself.. Have I given it that good thought while actually prioritizing things at office and work and between both..and in LIFE.. I mean sometimes we just keep on doing few things, talking to few people and ignoring, though unintentionally, other things and people too.. And then later at some point we curse our priority list.. 

And then suddenly I recalled all those time management and motivational and life lessons books where the writer-speaker asks the readers to make a list of all things they want to do and have to do n prioritize them.. It sounded silly then, when i read them.. I mean who writes down all that!? Bit then initially for people like me, it is a mandate and may be as time passes by, I will learn, like other people, to manage everything with mere calculations in mind.. 

And it is not only about managing time; by prioritizing, you learn to do right things at the right time.. 

Like deciding when to get married or not to, at all (the only thing which people talk to me now a days..when it comes to priority talks;)) 


So for all those of my generation who are being constantly bugged by the "marriage" talk.. Its high time we list things down.. (May be marrying is out of our list or at least priority at this point or for some, surprisingly, it might be the only thing in the list ;)) 

And show it to those annoying distant relatives, neighbors, family friends - when they ask "Beta shaadi kb kr rhe ho?!"

Inspiration Courtesy : To the one who brought up the thought - "Priority listing"! Now you know what is at the top in the list my Bunny!! ;) See you soon!!

Thursday, 22 October 2015

Lost it!!

You fight at times..for the people you love; from the people you love, for/from the people you are loved from..and then you catch up and later patch up.. but from these numerous catches and patches, there is this contradictory lesson that I have learnt - either you melt in stronger than ever or you glue up weaker every time.. with most people, it is the latter one.. Not because of the fight.. but because of the way things happen.. We fight - but with bad intentions, because of weird notions and worst of all, with poor communication.. Realizations will follow, no doubt, what went wrong, but sometimes they follow too far and most times they follow too late..either is no good!!

So before you get into the wrestle with any close one - take a moment, breathe with all the lungs you have, keep up your spine - no losing it, pass on a smile, get out of the ring!! And for the fortunate ones, who are not sitting miles apart from the loved ones - take a moment, breathe with all the lungs you have, keep up your spine - no losing it, pass on a smile, give a hug, get a more warm one, a kiss, a smile again and its done :)

“If you get into a fight with someone you love, you are already a loser..“

Inspiration Courtesy : To the Good IN me..to the Bad BY me..

Wishing you a very happy Dusshehra.. let us pledge the victory of good over evil.. without getting in any fight.. let go!!